We have all experienced betrayal in one form or another. Former attorney, bestselling author, international speaker Lora Cheadle tells the story of how she was able to go from the devastation of betrayal to achieving her most brilliant life! Courageously stripping out of old beliefs and revealing exactly who she was is the key to true healing and uncovering her power!
👉🏼 Tune in to the new episode of the Divorced Woman’s Guide —
Overcoming Relationship Betrayal with Lora Cheadle.
Key Points in this Episode:
✔️ The pain of betrayal and infidelity is an opportunity to grow and to understand yourself better. Know that only you can do your healing work for you — and set no expectations that you can do the same for your partner. Focus wholeheartedly on yourself, and use this experience for good.
✔️ If somebody else judged you — it’s absolutely their prerogative that says a whole lot about them and nothing about you. Lora is the epitome that it’s possible to become BRILLIANT and BOLD after BETRAYAL. “I was shattered personally; not only have I given up my life professionally, but I also don’t even feel comfortable saying anything because of the way people are going to start judging me. It took a while for me to see it was not my fault, untangle myself from that perceived judgment, and get strong in myself that his infidelity had nothing to do with me or my choices. If somebody else judged me, that was absolutely their prerogative, and it said a whole lot about them and nothing about me. That was really the catalyst for a lot of my work, coaching women around empowerment. I almost betrayed myself by hiding my story. How many other ways have we betrayed ourselves by putting up with the world and just shutting up, not to rock the boat? I saw my entire life in a different light and decided I would not do that anymore.”
✔️ Discover Lora’s Five Steps of FLAUNT! and the magic of burlesque to help you untangle yourself from the past, release judgment, and uncover your inner power.
✔️ Think who you would want to be and NOT who you’re supposed to be. What is a good daughter? A good coparent? A good mom? Create your own definition of what your roles mean for you and not what is expected of you.
✔️ Your burlesque persona can do all the things that you’re too afraid to do. The word “burlesque” screams so many different meanings for people. As a routine, Lora has employed burlesque to empower many women’s lives. When incorporated in the healing process, they “strip out of” their pain, confusion, and insecurity and playfully reveal themselves as they are – and not what the world dictates them to be.
Lora Cheadle helps women overcome the devastation of betrayal and confidently engage in life again. She’s a former attorney, podcast host, and bestselling author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self.
After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, she uses her experience to help others reclaim their identity, self-worth, and enthusiasm for life after betrayal.
Named a Top Influencer by Success Women’s Conference, she has spoken on numerous stages, including the Women Economic Forum in New Deli, India.
Her work has been published in Thrive Global, Yoga Magazine, and Om Yoga Magazine, among others.
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